Comments on: Meditations On Forgiveness — Release Yourself

By: Marie Jacquelyne Clement

Marie Jacquelyne Clement — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:44:03 +0000

I was taught from an early age that forgiveness was essential if we wanted to live a long and healthy life. When someone does anything to me, I forgive and so much so that I forget after awhile completely what a person has done, to the point if I meet them I will greet them with a hearty hello to their surprise!
I had forgotten all that was done to me by them. My daughter-in-law Monique, said that she wished she had my quality of forgiveness, she never saw ever anyone like me to forget even the worse thing anyone would do to me.
My x-husband, abandoned us when I was 21 with 3 kids, yet last year, when he entered into the hospital I went to his side, I treated him with therapeutic touch and was able to find the problem as the doctors said he didn’t have much of a chance to live as they didn’t know what was wrong. I told them. They explored with a camera and sure enough I was right. I went once a week to treat him, care for him.
Did he appreciate all I did? Not at all, when he was well and out of the hospital, now living with my son, I was going to visit and he told my daughter-in-law that he was going to spend his time in the room when I came!
That is the gratitude I had for saving his life!
Do I hold bitterness, not at all, actually, I feel sorry for him as he will not live to be very old.
I just had something happen again, my minister betrayed my confedentality yesterday and I was very shocked trust me to find that out! I was terribly hurt! I will not go back to my church as long as he is there!
But, I do not hold a grudge, today I asked God to forgive those who trespass against us and I forgave him. But I do not need to associate with him.
I know that he is miserable right now and he is paying the price for his betrayal of my trust. Not that it was a huge confidence..I met with him for discussing about baptisim and confided that I had to go to get free food for the poor because my grandson left and I had to pay the rent on my own and I was having a difficult time.
Well to make a story short, his wife called me as I had sent a e-mail about a natural product that may help her. She explained exactly what she had and had tried it. Then she said, My husband said you had 6 cats. I said I have 8 as I just saved two more..I save cats, care for them and find homes for them and keep 6 which are neutered.“
She knocked me off my feet when she said, “So if you have 8 cats, that is expensive to feed, so how can you afford to feed the cats when you can’t feed yourself!”

I was completely shocked to realize that he had told his wife about our conversation which was supposed to be confidential..well I thought it was.

That was it! I’ve had it! He had betrayed me again! So, I wrote back saying I had it with that church and if I couldn’t trust my Minister then I will not go back.

I forgive him again. But the hurt is there, but forgiveness takes the pain away and will be a time I will completely forget. That is what forgiveness does, you completely forget what a person did to you..of course it comes back if something should trigger it but you don’t feel anything.

Forgiving is very important for the health of your mind, your body and if you want to be forgiven by God, you must forgive your enemy so to speak.

I love the healing I am listening to and doing since 4 days and as soon as I can afford it..you bet I will order the Silva Program. Thank you for your generosity..it will come back to you three-fold.

By: nat

nat — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:09:40 +0000

great site!however, can’t find meditations on forgiveness. Am i missing something? thanks so much for all your support and spiritual healing. Nat.

By: pf

pf — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 08:15:16 +0000

Forgiveness

By: Alma Wilson

Alma Wilson — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 22:58:54 +0000

Hola,
silvia que pena que no tengo el estudio para evitar estres, nostros vivimos en Huoston Tx y andavamos de vacaciones es Rosarito Baja California Mexico, y al segundo dia de vacaciones le dio a mi esposo un ataque al corazon por tanto estres que a tenido, todavia esta en peligro el savado mismo dia que tivo el ataque al corazon, le tuvieron que abrir una arteria, y el lunes le van a tener que destapar otras espero y confio en Dios que todo salga bien, como me gustaria aprehender a saber como quitarme el estres y poder alludar a mi esposo, pero el no le gusta la meditacion, los cristianos no estan de acuerdo no se porque, pero yo pienso deiferente soy de mente mas abierta; talves algun dia tengo dinero para comprar el sistema para saver como quitarme el estres, ya que hay veses que siento que yo tambien voy a tener un infarto. Attentamente me despido gracias por leer mi carta Alma

By: Shirley

Shirley — Thu, 07 May 2009 02:09:29 +0000

I tried to post a comment but it seems to have gone to the ethereal world for the angels to decipher.I am having a bit of a problem with my concentration because I work on a sub acute unit in a facility and I work straight night shift. I would like to change this but I don’t know what to do. I need the money. It is not an extremely high paying job but it does pay the bills. I am studying Silva Peaks at the moment and am managing a little at a time because of my work schedule, I would like to study full time but finances do not allow this. My goal is to be able to do what Isobel does, I think it is called Medical Empath. I know this is my true life calling so I know it will happen, I just wish it would be a little easier. I am 62 years old and have diploma’s as a Natural Health Practioner and Relaxation Therapist. I also am a Hurley Osborn Practioner and am Level 2 Reiki Practioner looking to get my Masters. My fondest desire is to become a Medical Empath with the power to see inside the human body and heal people. I was one of the very fortunate ones that recieved a ticket to your class in Austin in August. I am so looking forward to learning all I possibly can in those classes and am hoping to return home with my deepest desire beginning to be fullfilled, or better!!

By: Glenda

Glenda — Wed, 06 May 2009 22:56:05 +0000

I read the full report on Forgiveness but did not find the 2 meditations tht was suppose to be with it

By: Suzi

Suzi — Mon, 04 May 2009 10:07:09 +0000

The meditations aren’t there but the exercise left for us to achieve, is a wonderful idea.

By: Suzi

Suzi — Sun, 03 May 2009 09:21:53 +0000

Forgiveness i think is a pretty big thing. If forget means to 'not get' then perhaps forgive means to 'not give'? Such an easy thing to do. Perhaps when we forget to forgive we just have to go back and fix it somehow by 'giving for them'. Its not up to that person to be ok with my miss-givings and i hope they can forgive me right back. But if that isn't possible for them right now then i hope in the future we may come to a healing place together. Life is too much fun to miss anything. 'Giving for them' may not always be an easy thing to do but i know what its like when someone 'gives for me' and it would be nice to offer that to others when ever i think of it. Gosh! I haven't even read the post yet. Please forgive me... i'll get to and read it now. Cheers to all... Suzi

By: Dr.Muthupalaniyappan

Dr.Muthupalaniyappan — Sun, 03 May 2009 07:54:15 +0000

I do not see the way to download the 2 meditations for forgiveness — I can only read the article on forgiveness — NOT the 2 MEDITATIONS .
I have not noticed any beneficial chnages after going through all the modules ‚meditations etc. In fact I find that a lot of more problems are cropping up from time to time .
I have not seen any improvement in my son’s UV light security project which he has been researching the past 4 yaers — Financial Grants & loans promised by the Malysian Government have not been successful . In fact my advance of RM 400,000 over the years towards his R & D look like being wasted .
Our family property of 44 Acres in Malaysia cannot be developed or sold due to the presence of the Government Army Ammunition Depot near by ( for the apst 15 years ) Other properties nearer to the ammunition depot have been developed earlier .

I have a Libel suit against me and 5 other Lion Club members by another junior Lion member and it has been going on for the past 13 years with changes of 5 Judges ( by Transfer process ) and only my testimony being heard all this while — there seems to be no end although we are NOT in the wrong . The next hearing is on 10th May 2009 . How can I overcome the odds , as the Plaintiff’s lawyer is trying to fix us up by asking absurd questions and MISLEADING THE JUDGE– The Plaintiff is primarily & clearly at fault for Getting the club SUSPENDED and then DE-REGISTERED by his NEGLIGENCE .
I have been using the Silva centering exercise and Daisypond meditation several times a day since subscribing to the course — I do Not see any result .
Please advise . Thanks . Dr.Y.Muthupalaniyappan

p.s Looking at the feed back by others , I wish I could also give positive feedback of its benefits . My most pressing problems are 1. The land sale — to get authorisation from the Malaysian Government and Army Depot to develop the alnd , 2. My Lions Club High Court case , 3. My son’s INNOVATIVE SECURITY PROJECT .

By: hamida saida

hamida saida — Sat, 02 May 2009 18:42:30 +0000

hi! i thank you for all your messages. what you want to learn to me is wonderful but after the first exercise i feel a big headackh (sorry i don’t know how to write this word} and also i am contacting you from morocco and i don’t have visa card to pay you. i don ‘t understand all what you write to me. please can you send me your lessons in french ? may i paying you buy post ?

thank you very much for all.
saida